

Tail Note Vol. 003
We made it through 2025.
(&& This is going to be a long ass newsletter because grief kicked my ass and I also want to make sure you guys have all the info to start the fake new year correctly lol *yal know I believe the new year starts in Aries season but let’s continue)
And for me, that year tried me in ways I don’t ever want to repeat.
But I’m not centering that story anymore and you don’t need to either.
If 2025 was hard, the work isn’t to relive it. It’s to study it. Look for the patterns:
Who did you have to let go of?
What did you stop doing?
What finally stopped working and why?
That wasn’t failure. That was information, data if you analytical like me.
Because after a year that chaotic, what we’re in now isn’t a reset,it’s a recalibration.
The natural response to chaos isn’t speed. It’s slowing down. That’s why you’re going to hear words like analog, beginner, and intentional everywhere this year. Slowness isn’t a setback. It’s becoming the signal.
This week’s orientation is simple:
Attention didn’t disappear. It slowed down. It’s recalibrating.
People are moving with more intention now. Less impulse. More discernment.
The ones who will win in 2026 aren’t the loudest, they’re the clearest. Clear about who they are. Clear about what they offer. Clear about who it’s for.
The world is recalibrating.
And so is the internet, content, and marketing.

What’s surfacing right now (and what actually matters)
Here’s the real shift I’m seeing as we move into 2026 not hypotheticals, not “experts say,” just patterns on the ground that I’ve seen with my own two eyes
YOU STILL NEED A DAMN SIGNATURE SERIES: Random posting isn’t cutting it anymore. People want something they can come back to. A recurring idea, format, or theme they recognize as yours. Not viral. Familiar. Something that builds trust over time instead of chasing spikes.
Right now—LIKE THIS WEEK—people want guidance: Not inspiration. Guidance.
How to have a better 2026 (practical, grounded, not delusional)
How to create a vision board that isn’t just aesthetic but actually directional
This is a “tell me where to look” moment for people.
People are opting out of constant consumption and opting into curation. They don’t want more content. They want filtered perspective. Who do I trust to help me decide what matters? That’s the real influence now.
Trust is outperforming polish: Overproduced, overly clever content is starting to feel hollow. People trust the creator who sounds like a real person with lived experience not a brand pretending to be human.
Brands with a clear stance are holding attention longer than brands chasing trends: Neutral, vague, “for everyone” messaging is getting skipped. Clarity beats cleverness. Saying something specific even if it’s not for everyone keeps people longer.
Quiet consistency is starting to look very attractive: Not posting every day. Not disappearing either. Just showing up predictably, calmly, without panic. In a loud world, consistency without desperation stands out.
AI content is annoying people. Badly: People can feel it. The sameness. The emptiness. The lack of soul. This is why “human-made content” is becoming a search behavior. People aren’t looking for perfection, they’re looking for you. Your voice. Your lived context. Your thinking.
LinkedIn is cool again.And not in a corporate way. In a “talk about your actual work, your thinking, your process” way. If you’re building anything real, LinkedIn is where depth is being rewarded right now.
Substack is part of this shift but I’ll talk about that later.That deserves its own note.
Anyone can be an influencer this year because people are tired of influencers:The pedestal is gone. Relatability is the currency. People don’t want someone to aspire to they want someone to walk with.
Big influencer culture is falling. Micro-influencers and comfort creators are rising: Less flexing. More community. Less performance. More presence.
People are choosing creators who feel safe, familiar, and honest over ones who feel untouchable.Comfort content is having a moment: That means sharing your internal thoughts. Your struggles. Your learning curves. And yes also the good. Especially in business and creative industries where people are craving realism over highlight reels.
Retention > Reach:The real question isn’t “How many people saw this?”
It’s “How long did they stay?” Watch time, saves, replies those are the analytics that matter now.Carousels are becoming personal magazines:Think lifestyle journal. Think diary entries with a point of view .Signature style. Consistent tone. Something that feels collectible, not disposable.
And finally: stop posting the same thing everywhere :Copy-paste content is obvious now. Each platform wants to feel like its own room in the same house. Same values. Same voice. Different conversations.That’s how you build a universe not just content floating around the internet.


How to Recalibrate Internally for Online & Business Success
The Great Recalibration starts inside first. Before you post, before you hustle, before you chase reach clarity comes first. Because here’s the truth:
External growth always mirrors internal clarity.I f you’re unclear about your message, your direction, or your boundaries, you’ll feel like you’re running uphill even if you’re working harder than ever.
When you know exactly who you’re for (and who you’re not), the work stops being a chase and starts being a path.
Here’s how to actually do it this week:
⛰️ Step 1: Find the Leak (15 minutes)
Quick, honest check:
Where am I working hardest for the least response?
What feels forced or performative in my content?
What am I doing out of habit instead of intention?
Circle the one thing that feels off. That’s your misalignment.
⛰️Step 2: Clarify Your Signal (10 minutes)
Finish these sentences in one line each:
I am for people who ______________________
I am not for people who ______________________
The problem I solve best is ______________________
If you struggle to answer cleanly, that’s where your energy goes first
⛰️ Step 3: Audit Your Front Door (10 minutes)
Pick one first-touch point:
Your IG or TikTok bio
Website homepage
Pinned post
Ask yourself:
“Would the right person immediately know this is for them?”
If not, rewrite one sentence. Not the whole thing.
⛰️ Step 4: Set One Boundary (5 minutes)
Pick one thing to stop this month:
A platform you’re forcing
A type of client that drains you
A content style that feels misaligned
Decide once. Stick to it. Don’t negotiate.
⛰️Step 5: Name Your Path (5 minutes)
Write this down and keep it visible:For the next 30 days, I’m building clarity around ____________, not chasing everything.
This is how recalibration becomes forward motion.
Reality Check🌊
Burnout doesn’t come from doing too much. It comes from doing too much without alignment.
Clarity first. Momentum second. Always.This week, don’t chase the algorithm. Chase clarity. Everything else flows from that.

So by now you see that the trend is that 2026 is about clarity first, momentum second. If you want the year to actually work for you, you’ve gotta recalibrate across everything business, social, home, money, wellness, even the way you show up in style. Think of this as your ultimate trail map.
Business
Pick your signature offer or series. Something people instantly recognize as yours. No more chasing shiny things.
Audit your clients: Who do you want more of? Who do you need less of?
Stop chasing trends that don’t fit your voice. They’re a distraction.
Set boundaries: What work do you refuse this year? Say it, write it, enforce it.
Focus on retention over reach. Repeat clients and loyal customers are everything.
Stop posting the same thing everywhere. Each platform is its own room in your universe.
Start a signature content series: carousel, short video, guide, diary-style post—your vibe, repeated with intention.
People are tired of AI perfection lean into human-made, trust-forward content.
Share the real stuff: wins, struggles, lessons. Comfort content > flex content.
Micro-community over influencer chasing. Real people stick with people, not personas.
Home & Environment
Declutter one space this week: desk, closet, or digital files. Energy gets stuck in clutter.
Create a calm corner to reset your mind daily. A place you actually want to be.
Add touches that reflect your vision: a plant, a vision board, candles, cozy corners whatever signals your intention.
Wellness
Build slow routines: meditation, movement, journaling. Not because you have to because it feeds you.
Identify stress triggers and make boundaries. Stop reacting; start choosing.
Track energy, not just time. What fuels you vs drains you?
Sleep like your business depends on it—because it does.
Money
Audit recurring spending. Cut what doesn’t serve your growth or joy. I use Monarch to organize all my accounts
Recalibrate your pricing. Your work deserves the right value.
Track profit over revenue. Stop glorifying busy work.
Start a small “freedom fund.” Even $100 a month compounds into options.
Fashion & Personal Style
Reevaluate your signature pieces. Wear what feels you, not what’s trendy.
Audit the closet for clutter and misaligned items. If it doesn’t serve your energy or confidence, it’s gone.
Invest in a few statement pieces that signal clarity in how you show up.
Keep your style functional confidence + energy > everything else.
⛰️ Action Step for This Week
Pick one item from each category and do it. Micro recalibrations = macro momentum.



📱 App of the Week: Substack

I want to talk Substack for a minute. Personally, I didn’t build my personal brand thereI started my newsletter on Substack and eventually moved it to Beehiivbut here’s the deal: if you’re new to newsletter writing, Substack is a great place to start.
Substack has evolved, but the promise is simple: you write a weekly newsletter, it gets sent to your subscribers, and each subscriber has their own built-in social network. It’s basically write meets Instagram.
This is a low-friction, low-cost way to start building a media list, which is exactly what you need if you’re thinking strategically about your influence. Remember the golden rule of marketing? Follow where the attention is.
And this isn’t just for everyday creators. Big brands like Tory Burch and Rare Beauty are on Substack now. The next wave of influential voices won’t just show up on social they’ll own a direct line to people who care about what they have to say.
You don’t have to go viral. You just have to start writing, start building your audience, and stay consistent. Substack is a simple, effective way to do th
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